After Divorce

When you met your spouse…

Everything seemed to come together. It felt like she completed you.

Then you came to the rough patches. Suddenly, nothing you did was enough. You tried and tried again, but nothing worked.

Now, it’s over.

It’s lonely after divorce.

Sometimes you dream about being together (the good times – not the bad).

Every day, you wake up, and the reality hits you again: It’s over.

Sometimes you’re so angry you could scream, but then everyone would know how hard this is for you.

Most people think you should move on. And that doesn’t seem too unrealistic. After all, you have a few fleeting moments here and there when everything feels okay.

But then… all that pain and loneliness comes crashing back in.

The fact is you’re grieving.

Most of us understand that we’ll grieve someone or something.

Many of us don’t know that we grieve major losses (like divorce) in the same way: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. You’ll bounce around through all of these – in no particular order – as you grieve the loss of your marriage.

I know how hard it can be from the many people I’ve helped after divorce.

Therapy can help you through this.

You can still live your best life. Let me help you get there.

Right now, you have a lot of complex feelings related to the divorce. I have various mindfulness and cognitive tools to help you process them.

We’ll also access your unconscious mind to reveal more about the values and tendencies you bring to your relationships. You’ll discover what’s behind the positive and negative aspects of the romantic connections you make. What you learn about yourself will prepare you to lead a deeply connected life moving forward.

As our work progresses, you’ll start to find energy for building a new life – one with hope and deeper, lasting relationships.

In time, you’ll realize that your ex is only a small part of your life story. Further, your divorce will no longer define your life.

Your best life lies ahead!

It’s my calling to help you get there and support you as you heal.

Living without your spouse might be hard, but being disconnected from your deepest Self is the true tragedy. Let’s make sure that doesn’t happen.

The peace that comes from a deep connection with Self is waiting for you.

Don’t wait to get help. Call me today for your free 15-minute consultation: (315) 876-4419.